Youth/Adult Romance & Intimacy

[Tabitha]

Youth/Adult romance is a term given to a partnership wherein the adult & youth share a mutual joy in loving one another, spending time having fun, looking into each others eyes talking, holding hands, adoring one another like best friends.
There is nothing illegal or immoral or unethical about Youth/Adult romance; it is the intimacy that is demonized and illegal.
There is a certain viable cross-section of adults who are born with a genetic predisposition to engage Youth/Adult romance. It is not an anomalous mutation or unnecessary syndrome, it is a natural social dynamism held in position for supporting Wholesome Family Unity.
Youth/Adult romance has a true purpose & function within the Life-Cycle, but it cannot be substantiated, our societies distorted, because no educated person, or ordained person, or reasonable person would ever touch the topic with a 25 foot pole. And sadly, what passes unspoken because of all the fear and dishonesty in the world, is at the expense of the most important precious resource in the universe, child at heart.

Ironically, the worst thing you can do if you love children is to hate pedophilia, because by hating it and fearing it all you do is scare it into a position where it becomes truly dangerous. Embracing pedophilia is the only way to negotiate with it to minimize the threat. This concept should be quite simple for any intelligent rational mind to understand- you cannot effectively modify human behavior without an established sense of true rapport, that is called Love, that is what "Love thy neighbor" means.

Also, in regard to Youth/Adult romance as it applies to the support of Wholesome Family Unity, the purpose is to instruct the child so upon entering adulthood can skillfully find a proper mate, limiting chances of failed marriage due to lack of relationship skills - that is the whole point in educating children so when it comes time for them to be fully aware human beings, they know how to raise productive healthy families, something I think all of us can agree on our planet needs more of, and not less of.


Youth/Adult intimacy is a term given in replacement of "inappropriate contact", in order to effectively navigate communication through the various thought strategies of the world model in the mind of a pedophile.
Every person needs to be aware of the reasons why child molestation is bad, and history contains few rare exceptions.
If you don't know why it's bad, just try reading the news these days.
http://clovernews.wordpress.com/

[Kasz]

Hi Tabitha,
thanks for your post. It is question, that a child can realize, what type of romance or intimacy is appropriate or not. Because of that, child can evaluate romance or intimacy with adult in the future as inappropriate. Children love adults in different way - it's not an erotic love. So I think, adult, who love some child erotically, must behave towards this child only as a friend, because child feels the adult only as an older adult friend. I think the friendship between them can be very enriching for both of them, if adult respect the fact, that the child is only a child, not a small woman or man, and if adult (even through loving the child erotically) behave towards the child like other adults (also those, who are not paedophiles), who has friends or good relations among children.

[Tabitha]

Friendship is very meaningful to girls. Building memories with them is the reward.