Is Czech Republic a good country to emigrate to?

[Kofola Nizozemi]

Ahoj!

I still have to use the English section as my knowledge of the beautiful Czech language is not enough to use to Czech language fora. There seems to be little activity here however.

Anyway, I seem to be in pretty bad luck this year. I had many little girlfriends (just for friendship, no sex), but something went bad and people found out that I am 'pedophile', the little girls of course still want contact with me, but parents now prevent them having contact with me.

I might even lose my job now (still not sure if I can continue), even though I did not break any law. But someone gossiping that you like little girls might be enough to lose your job and friends.

Well, I had an amazing busy life until some weeks ago, now I am lonely and depressed. If I can keep my job I might stay here in my country, but if I lose it, I want to go somewhere. Life is too boring now, I lost almost everything.

The question is: is Czech Republic a good place to go? I need to learn the language which is amazing difficult. How is life in Czech if you like little girls (I can perfectly live without sex, but without little girlfriends - just for being friends - life is not good, to je spatny zivot ).

If people in Czech know you like little girls, can you still have a social life?

Are there any cheap possibilities to learn cestina jazyka while in Czech rep. ?In my country i do not see many possibilities as there are almost no Czechs living here.

Dekuje vam a na schledanou.

[Gabriel Svoboda]

If people in Czech know you like little girls, can you still have a social life?

Some users of this forum have been lucky enough and they have a social life even after their coming out, but it is far from universal. Everywhere in the world it is safer to avoid coming out. Or at least say "I like little girls", not "I am a pedophile" (for most people it is a big difference).

Are there any cheap possibilities to learn cestina jazyka while in Czech rep. ?

It is possible (google "čeština pro cizince"), but it is hell difficult.

The question is: is Czech Republic a good place to go?

Even though I am an anti-nationalist and most Czechs would label me as anti-Czech due to my opinions about Czech history, now I think due to recent developments in western Europe that the Czech Republic is one of the best places to live in. Here we have real liberalism, not liberalism by name only (in reality enforced political correctness and no-go zones).

[Daniel]

I am sorry for what happened in you life. I agree, that life without children is not good.

The question is: is Czech Republic a good place to go?

I agree with Gabriel, that Czech Republic is safe place. I think, that Western Europe goes wrong way and that some states are on the way to became Islamic chalifat. I hope we will not follow them. And may be in the next century people will emigrate from west to east.

Czech legislation doesn't have any discrimination law against pedophiles (opposite to Poland or Russian). And Czech sexologists are the best in the world. They distinguish between child offenders and pedophiles. If you need help, you will get it.

If people in Czech know you like little girls, can you still have a social life?

It always depends on a particular person. It depends on relationships, it depends on how long you know one each other, how much you trust one each other. Coming out may break your relationship, or it can make it stronger.

And it also depends on how particular person is satisfied with his own sexuality. If someone lives in a lie, if someone search in secret for pornography, if someone look to women with lust thoughts, he will probably suspect, that you do the same things. If someone is ok with his own sexuality, he will probably expect, that you are also ok.

So it is hard to answer.

[Kofola Nizozemi]

Ahoj Gabriel a Daniel!

Dekuje vam dlja vas otpovedi a podpori.

Thanks a lot for your answers and support.

Indeed this period is very difficult for me.

I was even suicidal for several days, this night however I feel better, also because i talked to a good friend of me (in real life, not on the internet).

The most beauty full of all that God created are little girls. (or for some of us little boys ).

It would be nice to talk to a psychiatrist in Czech Republic (here in Nizozemi you will not find help in any form if you like little girls/boys), I should ask my assurance if psychiatrist in Czech are covered, otherwise I can probably pay some sessions myself. I should however study cestina, otherwise communication will be impossible.

Anyway thanks again.

And I wish for everyone this forum that all of you will be happy and in very good health and have at least 25 little girls/boys wanting to be friends/girlfriends with you and hug and kiss you.

Laska! Pozdravi!

Kofola.

[Gabriel Svoboda]

I should ask my assurance if psychiatrist in Czech are covered, otherwise I can probably pay some sessions myself. I should however study cestina, otherwise communication will be impossible.

I think many Czech sexologists speak English, even though it is better to ask about language in advance.

[GW junior]

Ahoj Kofola.
I had many years ago the same situation.
I worked at primary school in Poland and fell in love with a 7 years old boy. He loved me too.
But our love disturbed someone. So I had to levae my job.

[Kasz]

I worked at primary school in Poland and fell in love with a 7 years old boy. He loved me too.
But our love disturbed someone. So I had to levae my job.

As a teacher, you should treat all the children you teach the same way. So if anyone noticed that you are making some differences, I do not wonder that superiors or parents did not like this.

[Návštěvník]

I agree with you, but I was not a teacher. I worked as a psychologist.
The boy took a liking to me.
I always repeat, that children have a healthy intuition and like true paedophiles.
When I was younger the children were catching me first.
They showed initiative in making contacts.
These times have already passed

[Kofola Nizozemi]

Ahoj.



One more question.

Can one tell there are differences in region within Czech Republics? Are there some regions more hostile and others less?
Maybe close to the border of Poland or Slovakia people are more catholic and therefore less tolerant, more hostile and aggressive?

Do anyone have good suggestions about language-courses? In my country there are almost none (the last language course here that should start november 2017 was canceled because not enough students).

I hope the hysteria does not reach Czech republics. Here in my country you can not even look or smile to a little girl, without people getting angry (and in the neighbourhood where the lower classes live, people can beat you up for just looking to a little girl).
Only the muslim-immigrants are tolerant, i do not joke. The muslims are the most tolerant in this case.

For me personally: i do not need sex. I can perfectly live without sex. So i am not going to break any laws. I speak several languages, i am creative, high education, i can be a great help to many people. I do not want to create any trouble to anyone.
I love little girls, since i like to be creative and playfull and little girls are just a lot of fun and (almost) never boring.
I like to be around them and most of the times they like to be around me. I want to able to act normal, but in my society one can not even look to a little girl, without the risk of being beaten up.

I do not like to leave my friends and family here. I rather stay at home. However, i am not capable of dealing with state-fascism in my country any longer. I could be a great help to many, including my own government. Unfortunately, state chooses to ruin the country, make everybody a slave and afraid and people here are too stupid to understand they are being brainwashed.

[Gabriel Svoboda]

Can one tell there are differences in region within Czech Republics? Are there some regions more hostile and others less?
Maybe close to the border of Poland or Slovakia people are more catholic and therefore less tolerant, more hostile and aggressive?

I don't know. I can give you a map of religion, but I don't now whether there is some correlation and what kind of correlation it would be. For example, if a referendum on same-sex marriage or a similar question were held in Czechia, it is quite probable the religious regions would vote "no" and the irreligious regions would vote "yes". But if we are talking about looking at a little girl on the street, perhaps (this is just a big speculation by me, I have no personal experience) you could encounter more tolerance in the religious regions, just like you encounter more tolerance in Muslim regions.



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I hope the hysteria does not reach Czech republics. Here in my country you can not even look or smile to a little girl, without people getting angry (and in the neighbourhood where the lower classes live, people can beat you up for just looking to a little girl).
Only the muslim-immigrants are tolerant, i do not joke. The muslims are the most tolerant in this case.

This is because Muslim immigrants are in the period of history where Western societies used to be. In the 19th century, child nudity was no deal, but adult nudity was a serious crime. It has become vise versa since then, but Muslim societes have not undergone this development yet. I have already written about it for you:

If you concentrate solely on freedom to be friends with children, I think the best country to live in is some traditional country that often have strong legal and social regulations regarding sexuality, but it is tacitly implied that it concerns only adults, since prepubescent children are considered asexual. I. e. for example women have to swim fully clothed, but children can be naked and no-one cares.

[MR_Xguard]

He asked about regions, not religions
Well, IMO the Moravia region is more friendly but the economy is much worse than in Bohemia region, where IMO the people are less friendly.

[Kofola Nizozemi]

Ahoj,

I was wondering what will happen in Czech Republic if someone is beaten up or threatened, because he of she loves children? Just because of the sexual orientation.

In the Netherlands, if you will go to the police, the police will not do anything against the person who was beaten you up or threatening you. The police here hates people who love children. Actually they will only will make your life worse, by insulting you and doing a house-search, computer-search and sometimes even informing your boss about you or your neighbours. Psychotherapists will refuse you as a client.
Indeed, in the ' 60's 70' s en 80's the situation here was much different. Today you will not have any protection against voilence if you like children. Even not if you always did stick to the law and never ever had sex with anyone.

I understood already in Czech Republic therapy is possible if you love children, but I wonder what will be the reaction of the Czech police if someone is beaten up because of sexual orientation.
I just need a place to be safe.

I think you are all very lucky to be born in a real free and democratic country with free speech. I can not say the same about my country.

[pbd]

I was wondering what will happen in Czech Republic if someone is beaten up or threatened, because he of she loves children? Just because of the sexual orientation.

In the Netherlands, if you will go to the police, the police will not do anything against the person who was beaten you up or threatening you. The police here hates people who love children. Actually they will only will make your life worse, by insulting you and doing a house-search, computer-search and sometimes even informing your boss about you or your neighbours.

I don't know anyone who sought help from police against threats or attacks in his personal life because of his/her pedophilia. Maybe I'm naive (I am), but I think it is possible the police will actually help you. It may very much depend on the particular policemen you encounter. When we participated on Prague Pride in 2014, some of us were taken by the police to a station for questioning, because we were distributing some flyers that allegedly inspired sexual exploitation of children (of course they wasn't). I don't know if there were any further actions by the police in this manner. In 2017 on the same parade, when some of our members were harassed by one of the organizers, one of us asked a police patrol for help and they actually tried to help and told the unhappy organizer not to follow and harass us.

I have regrettably committed a crime. I gave up myself. Every policemen that worked on the case acted decently. They haven't even searched my house or computer. As far as I know from those who actually were in prison and from one prison guard, the situation is worse there. The guards turns blind eye on the abuse of child molesters, disclose your crime to other prisoners, etc.

The general attitude of Czechs towards pedophiles is unsurprisingly hostile, but I've haven't had any unbearable problems because of my sexual orientation even despite the fact that I was very careless and practically came out publicly in the place I lived. Many people (parents) were ok with it, many used it as a excuse to attack me. When the problems got too big, I moved to other neighborhood in the same city and problems disappeared.

[Kofola Nizozemi]

It is a very good country to emigrate to, very safe also.

Only now it is not possible, I am too late and locked up abroad in dangerous Netherlands.
I do not joke, beside the virus, it is extremely dangerous here if you like little girls - holcicky. Just looking at little girls or responding to them to say 'hello' if they greet you, is dangerous. You can't greet them back.

I do not have sex with anybody and never will have sex, as the goverment of Netherlands wants people not to have sex. I obey all laws. Still no safety.

Now I read at expats.cz that the Czech goverment want to close the hranice, border with all neighbour-countries for two years. That is a disaster for me.

I can stay inside my house here for two years, it is pretty safe inside - I did take however some messures for my safety - but staying inside two years is not a good thing for health and mental health.

I should have taken action sooner, getting some job somewhere in Czech Republic, so now I would have my residence permit. I am stupid.

I hope the man who threatens me will not kill me, no he notice I am again in Netherlands. Scary, very scary.

Praise God that you were born in a safe country, one of the most safe in the world: in Czech Republic.

If I am not killed in the next two years, I sure will revisited your beautyfull country with amazing nice people and will very quick look for a job somewhere. No idea how, as i still do not speak your language.